The news of your passing proved to me once again how wrong I was to think that I was already immune to the pain that comes with death!! I called you “Dad” not just because we adopted that appellation from Mum (your dear wife) but I know for a fact that is what you represented in my life. You were an always present help in times of need. Just the mention of your name whenever I found myself in vulnerable situations was enough security for me. A few years back you paid great tribute to our mother, your dear Sister Olive, here I am not able to find words to do same for you.
As early as my High School days, you will always improvise holiday jobs for me just so I have a little package before the start of another academic year. Immediately after my undergraduate programme you gave me the unique opportunity to my first formal job as a Research Assistant for a survey research project at CERUT in collaboration with a Dutch NGO (AIDEnvironment). The fundamentals I leant during this project and others that followed form the very foundation of all what I have so far achieved in the field of research and scientific publications. Yes, you spent a great deal of your earthly life impacting and investing in the lives of other people…you impacted your community to the best of your ability.
I do not miss any chance to declare that I am a testimony of the fruits of your generous investments. You called me “Madame le Gouveneur” and I am grateful that I had the opportunity to hear you on several occasions declare how much you are proud of my achievements. You were a rare breed and your legacies are indelible. May your good works accompany you to the world beyond. I will sure miss your usual guidance, your wise counsel and support but comforted by the fact that you are at rest, free from all the pains and uncertainties of this life. Adieu Dad till we meet again to part no more.
Dr. Mrs. Ngone Abwe Mercy (FAVM-University of Buea)